(September 18, 2016 at 7:38 am)Jello Wrote:(September 17, 2016 at 10:46 pm)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: "The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation."If i could. Unfortunately the rest of my family works, meaning i am stuck looking after the younger two kids, as otherwise we'd be breaking the law. I'm pretty much stuck at home when not at college, and that's not even considering that i can't fund doing anything because i can't get a job, and my parents hate giving me money.
Live your life to interest yourself, and you will find those who share your interests. At the very least, you won't be bored, and done right, the loneliness will be addressed.
(September 17, 2016 at 11:01 pm)Irrational Wrote: You know that's irrational thinking, right? Why presume you aren't already good enough? People shouldn't dictate that for you.For people? To not be just overlooked all the time? I want to actually be noticed, to have people actually appreciate me, instead of ignoring me, it's all i run into offline.
And good enough for what, by the way? To be perfect and flawless?
My two cents, if I may -
Have you tried making friends and failed at it? I'm sure there are lots of people who would be interested in making friends with you if you showed interest in them and what they are doing. It may take hard work at first, but it's worth it. It doesn't always happen on its own.