RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
October 27, 2016 at 11:34 am
(This post was last modified: October 27, 2016 at 11:43 am by Edwardo Piet.)
Well if my sincerity means no more to you than that then I don't know what to say. Other than this:
When people know me I would think that my struggling to pull myself away from a forum while honestly expressing that I'm trying to do so means something sincere and genuine to them, rather than being comparable to when EP does it. Do you think anyone who repeatedly expresses that they are trying to leave is being insincere if they fail even when they could easily be struggling to pull themselves away? Does sincerity mean no more to you than that? Do you think some people think EP is insincere merely because of that so anyone on AF no matter how loved and cared about and how real they feel... if they started struggling to leave AF and honestly expressed over and over that they were trying to leave as they were trying to leave then they're suddenly cast off as insincere as EP is to some people?
So if I had never honestly expressed that I was trying to leave more than once... if I just said "I'm trying to leave" once and then failed repeatedly that would have been less genuine? I completely disagree because every time I changed my mind I was honest about that as well, if I omitted that I would have been less openly honest. Saying what is honestly on my mind is not insincere. Comparing me to EP because my behavior seems similar if you completely ignore my intentions and my sincerity and who you feel you know I am up until that point. Why would you do that?
Okay so if you were struggling to leave AF and kept expressing how you wanted to leave whenever you honestly felt that way and then expressed that you were honestly changing your mind when you honestly felt that way, then that would make you as insincere as EP is thought to be by some people, okay. Noted.
Sorry I'm hurt by this. I thought you knew me better than that, Nym. I thought you were my friend. If someone doesn't think I am honest how are they my friend? If they think I'm not honest then they're inclined to frequently doubt the sincerity of what I say and friendship can't be built on that. I want to be your friend but if you're suggesting I'm Pot Calling the Kettle/a hypocrite and suggesting I'm insincere then I may be a friend to you but can our friendship work if you're not being a friend to me by casting me off as an insincere hypocrite like that?
I'm really hurt by this. I thought you thought more of me than that, Nym. I was going to make some music but now I'm just too hurt. Yes how you see me as a friend and a person does mean that much to me.
When people know me I would think that my struggling to pull myself away from a forum while honestly expressing that I'm trying to do so means something sincere and genuine to them, rather than being comparable to when EP does it. Do you think anyone who repeatedly expresses that they are trying to leave is being insincere if they fail even when they could easily be struggling to pull themselves away? Does sincerity mean no more to you than that? Do you think some people think EP is insincere merely because of that so anyone on AF no matter how loved and cared about and how real they feel... if they started struggling to leave AF and honestly expressed over and over that they were trying to leave as they were trying to leave then they're suddenly cast off as insincere as EP is to some people?
So if I had never honestly expressed that I was trying to leave more than once... if I just said "I'm trying to leave" once and then failed repeatedly that would have been less genuine? I completely disagree because every time I changed my mind I was honest about that as well, if I omitted that I would have been less openly honest. Saying what is honestly on my mind is not insincere. Comparing me to EP because my behavior seems similar if you completely ignore my intentions and my sincerity and who you feel you know I am up until that point. Why would you do that?
Okay so if you were struggling to leave AF and kept expressing how you wanted to leave whenever you honestly felt that way and then expressed that you were honestly changing your mind when you honestly felt that way, then that would make you as insincere as EP is thought to be by some people, okay. Noted.
Sorry I'm hurt by this. I thought you knew me better than that, Nym. I thought you were my friend. If someone doesn't think I am honest how are they my friend? If they think I'm not honest then they're inclined to frequently doubt the sincerity of what I say and friendship can't be built on that. I want to be your friend but if you're suggesting I'm Pot Calling the Kettle/a hypocrite and suggesting I'm insincere then I may be a friend to you but can our friendship work if you're not being a friend to me by casting me off as an insincere hypocrite like that?
I'm really hurt by this. I thought you thought more of me than that, Nym. I was going to make some music but now I'm just too hurt. Yes how you see me as a friend and a person does mean that much to me.