RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
October 27, 2016 at 1:31 pm
(This post was last modified: October 27, 2016 at 2:00 pm by Edwardo Piet.)
(October 27, 2016 at 1:11 pm)Nymphadora Wrote: @ Evie:
Nice job of picking apart my post there. Especially that last sentence. You spend way too much time creating lengthy text walls that don't accomplish a thing.
I'm not trying to accomplish something. I'm just honestly expressing myself. I'm proud to be who and how I am and comfortable in my own skin, my posts are more about authenticity and honest opinions and freethinking than accomplishment.
Quote:I didn't tell you not to express your feelings
I didn't tell you that you told me to not express my feelings. You told me literally to "not act all hurt", I told you to not tell me to not to do that. If you're going to tell me what to do I'm going to tell you to not tell me what to do.
Quote:Read the whole sentence as I wrote it.
I did.
Quote:You also tried placing unfounded guilt on me by insinuating in an earlier post, that because I hurt your feelings, you can't write your music now.
I didn't say that. I said I don't feel like writing my music right now, and I probably won't today, because I feel too hurt. You're not responsible for that. You're not responsible for my hurt, I'm responsible for my hurt. I never said otherwise and I insinuated nothing. Please I ask you not to falsely accuse me of insinuating something I haven't insinuated.
Quote:I am not going to feel bad because you decided to make a post about EP and I reacted to it and because I did, you can't go on with your plans?
You're entitled to however you're going to feel and I'm entitled to however I'm going to feel.
Quote: Give me a break. You're thousands of miles away and yet YOU choose to let my post prevent you from doing what you want simply because I called you out for doing the exact same thing you say you can't stand EP doing?
I'm not choosing anything. I'm hurt whether I like it or not and whether you like it or not and that's fine and sincere and denying it would be unhealthy of me. I don't choose to feel hurt and you're not responsible for it. I am. I simply am hurt and I'm glad that I'm hurt because the feeling of hurt is a healthy normal human emotional reaction to how I've interpreted this situation: feeling I've lost a friend.
Quote:And now you're trying to place even more guilt by repeatedly saying you think you've lost a friend?
I'm not trying to place any guilt. I'm honestly not trying to do anything other than honestly express my feelings. Again, as I have asked but you didn't answer: Would you rather I hadn't been honest about my feelings?
If you are incorrectly interpreting me as trying to make you feel guilty then that has nothing to do with me: I've only been honest about what I feel. I'm not trying to make anyone feel guilty, I'm only trying to--and succeeding in--telling the truth about my opinions and feelings.
Quote: Simply because I pointed out a fault?
Whatever.
You're not listening. I said I'm glad you pointed out what you honestly think is a fault of mine (insincerity) and I'm glad I responded with my honesty too: by telling you I'm not insincere, I'm sincere and that I feel hurt by you thinking otherwise.
If you're going to answer anything I say answer this:
Are you glad that I was honest about my feelings and my hurt to you?