RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
November 25, 2016 at 12:13 am
(This post was last modified: November 25, 2016 at 12:29 am by Edwardo Piet.)
CIJS
I'm not perfect but one thing I don't do is give up on a friend. That's not necessarily a good thing. It's really a mixed bag. I think it's both my strength and my weakness. The amount of times I've felt in life that I'm the one who messes everything up but then I remind myself that things rarely last forever and it just so happens that I'm never the one who leaves because that's--both fortunately and unfortunately-- just part of who I am.
So I think it's unfair on myself to beat myself up so much for being the odd one out all the time. Maybe it's not because there's something wrong with me. I could just as easily interpret as something right with me.
In reality I'd say it's not about good or bad: It's just about the fact that everybody's different. We're all unique and special in our own way. And we all learn from what life makes of us.
I'm not perfect but one thing I don't do is give up on a friend. That's not necessarily a good thing. It's really a mixed bag. I think it's both my strength and my weakness. The amount of times I've felt in life that I'm the one who messes everything up but then I remind myself that things rarely last forever and it just so happens that I'm never the one who leaves because that's--both fortunately and unfortunately-- just part of who I am.
So I think it's unfair on myself to beat myself up so much for being the odd one out all the time. Maybe it's not because there's something wrong with me. I could just as easily interpret as something right with me.
In reality I'd say it's not about good or bad: It's just about the fact that everybody's different. We're all unique and special in our own way. And we all learn from what life makes of us.