People might as well file "someone not owning up to their shit" in the list that's been started in this thread. People who can't accept ownership of their faults and mistakes and instead look to reason away or blame others, is pretty pathetic. This is a lesson I try to teach my kids all the time. Their father can't seem to ever be sincere in any apology he has to give, partly, because he has to be told that an apology would have been nice in the first place. The kids have gotten used to blaming everyone else for mistakes that were clearly their own.
This is the sort of thing that can create a division. You have the person who sees through the bullshit and then you have the person who refuses to acknowledge their error and then you have all of the people who are totally blind to the fact that there's even a problem to begin with. The person in error knows this and will manipulate and do whatever they can to get the uninformed on "their side", almost as if it's a stupid popularity contest.
This is the sort of thing that can create a division. You have the person who sees through the bullshit and then you have the person who refuses to acknowledge their error and then you have all of the people who are totally blind to the fact that there's even a problem to begin with. The person in error knows this and will manipulate and do whatever they can to get the uninformed on "their side", almost as if it's a stupid popularity contest.
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