(December 13, 2018 at 9:50 am)IWNKYAAIMI Wrote: Have courage and be kind..... Hahahahahahahahhahaha
I think you need to look at yourself here CL.
Did you take the persons feelings into account with your actions? I think it was all very unkind and uncalled for.
Sorry for not staying on topic, but hey.
The topic came up on that thread, and it is true, I gave my thoughts and my opinions on it.
You are right that I probably shouldn't have, and it wasn't kind. I knew the truth for a long time and never said a word, but got carried away and gave my thoughts when it came up. I'm not a perfect person.
That being said, I also don't think it is fair to accuse those people of maliciously ganging up on someone and bullying them, and saying it is their fault that the member in question left.
If you make up lies about yourself, and people find out and say something publicly, in a different forum, is it entirely their fault that you leave? Are they bullies who maliciously ganged up on you? I agree it should have been handled better, and Cap admitted the same. I apologize for giving my thoughts on it. I don't agree though, that it is entirely those people's faults or that they are bullies.
(PS- this doesn't apply to the particular rumor about money. That I did not agree with, and I said as much on the thread)
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh
