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Is love real?
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RE: Is love real?
(September 23, 2021 at 4:43 am)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote:
(September 22, 2021 at 10:06 pm)Angrboda Wrote: One thing that makes me wonder, though, is people can fall out of love even though neither has changed or done anything.  If it's really keyed to the other's happiness, why would it wink out like that?  Something is amiss.

Of course someone has changed when people fall out of love - they were in a state when the other's happiness mattered to them. For a myriad of possible reasons, that state changed.

Love is an emotional state, not a perpetual one. Ever been angry at someone and that anger just 'winked out' or gradually faded, even though you did nothing about it? Samesies.

Boru

With anger it's always something that changes with me, though. And that's the point. It seems less about caring about the other person than about how you'd feel if you did or didn't care for them as you think you need to do.
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Is love real? - by Angrboda - September 22, 2021 at 2:42 pm
RE: Is love real? - by The Grand Nudger - September 22, 2021 at 3:08 pm
RE: Is love real? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 22, 2021 at 3:20 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Angrboda - September 22, 2021 at 3:59 pm
RE: Is love real? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 22, 2021 at 4:04 pm
RE: Is love real? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 22, 2021 at 4:05 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Neo-Scholastic - September 22, 2021 at 5:13 pm
RE: Is love real? - by The Grand Nudger - September 22, 2021 at 3:24 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Fake Messiah - September 22, 2021 at 3:36 pm
RE: Is love real? - by The Grand Nudger - September 22, 2021 at 3:38 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Brian37 - September 22, 2021 at 3:40 pm
RE: Is love real? - by The Grand Nudger - September 22, 2021 at 3:43 pm
RE: Is love real? - by arewethereyet - September 22, 2021 at 4:00 pm
RE: Is love real? - by The Grand Nudger - September 22, 2021 at 4:03 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Angrboda - September 22, 2021 at 4:04 pm
RE: Is love real? - by The Grand Nudger - September 22, 2021 at 4:07 pm
RE: Is love real? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 22, 2021 at 4:08 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Angrboda - September 22, 2021 at 4:08 pm
RE: Is love real? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 22, 2021 at 4:10 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Angrboda - September 22, 2021 at 4:13 pm
RE: Is love real? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 22, 2021 at 4:18 pm
RE: Is love real? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 22, 2021 at 4:23 pm
RE: Is love real? - by The Grand Nudger - September 22, 2021 at 4:10 pm
RE: Is love real? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 22, 2021 at 4:14 pm
RE: Is love real? - by The Grand Nudger - September 22, 2021 at 4:15 pm
RE: Is love real? - by The Grand Nudger - September 22, 2021 at 4:22 pm
RE: Is love real? - by onlinebiker - September 22, 2021 at 4:35 pm
RE: Is love real? - by no one - September 22, 2021 at 4:38 pm
RE: Is love real? - by brewer - September 22, 2021 at 4:44 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Ranjr - September 22, 2021 at 4:49 pm
RE: Is love real? - by The Architect Of Fate - September 22, 2021 at 4:49 pm
RE: Is love real? - by vulcanlogician - September 22, 2021 at 5:28 pm
RE: Is love real? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 22, 2021 at 5:52 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Spongebob - September 22, 2021 at 5:55 pm
RE: Is love real? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 22, 2021 at 5:55 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Spongebob - September 22, 2021 at 5:58 pm
RE: Is love real? - by The Grand Nudger - September 22, 2021 at 10:03 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Angrboda - September 22, 2021 at 10:06 pm
RE: Is love real? - by arewethereyet - September 22, 2021 at 10:09 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Brian37 - September 22, 2021 at 10:19 pm
RE: Is love real? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 23, 2021 at 4:43 am
RE: Is love real? - by Angrboda - September 23, 2021 at 6:57 am
RE: Is love real? - by Foxaèr - September 22, 2021 at 10:08 pm
RE: Is love real? - by The Grand Nudger - September 23, 2021 at 12:24 am
RE: Is love real? - by Spongebob - September 23, 2021 at 7:46 am
RE: Is love real? - by Angrboda - September 23, 2021 at 8:00 am
RE: Is love real? - by Spongebob - September 23, 2021 at 8:02 am
RE: Is love real? - by Ahriman - September 23, 2021 at 8:26 am
RE: Is love real? - by Spongebob - September 23, 2021 at 8:33 am
RE: Is love real? - by brewer - September 23, 2021 at 10:00 am
RE: Is love real? - by BrianSoddingBoru4 - September 23, 2021 at 10:53 am
RE: Is love real? - by arewethereyet - September 23, 2021 at 11:43 am
RE: Is love real? - by Spongebob - September 23, 2021 at 10:05 am
RE: Is love real? - by brewer - September 23, 2021 at 10:18 am
RE: Is love real? - by Angrboda - September 23, 2021 at 10:07 am
RE: Is love real? - by Spongebob - September 23, 2021 at 10:44 am
RE: Is love real? - by Ahriman - September 23, 2021 at 10:33 am
RE: Is love real? - by Spongebob - September 23, 2021 at 10:40 am
RE: Is love real? - by Ahriman - September 23, 2021 at 10:51 am
RE: Is love real? - by Spongebob - September 23, 2021 at 12:52 pm
RE: Is love real? - by brewer - September 23, 2021 at 10:44 am
RE: Is love real? - by Ahriman - September 23, 2021 at 10:53 am
RE: Is love real? - by brewer - September 23, 2021 at 11:05 am
RE: Is love real? - by Ahriman - September 23, 2021 at 11:36 am
RE: Is love real? - by brewer - September 23, 2021 at 11:40 am
RE: Is love real? - by Ahriman - September 23, 2021 at 11:47 am
RE: Is love real? - by brewer - September 23, 2021 at 11:53 am
RE: Is love real? - by Ahriman - September 23, 2021 at 11:58 am
RE: Is love real? - by brewer - September 23, 2021 at 12:51 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Ahriman - September 23, 2021 at 1:23 pm
RE: Is love real? - by brewer - September 23, 2021 at 2:18 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Ahriman - September 23, 2021 at 2:33 pm
RE: Is love real? - by brewer - September 23, 2021 at 3:04 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Ahriman - September 23, 2021 at 3:52 pm
RE: Is love real? - by brewer - September 23, 2021 at 4:16 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Ahriman - September 23, 2021 at 4:25 pm
RE: Is love real? - by brewer - September 23, 2021 at 5:58 pm
RE: Is love real? - by The Architect Of Fate - September 23, 2021 at 6:38 pm
RE: Is love real? - by arewethereyet - September 23, 2021 at 7:19 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Spongebob - September 24, 2021 at 6:32 pm
RE: Is love real? - by brewer - September 24, 2021 at 7:31 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Spongebob - September 25, 2021 at 9:02 am
RE: Is love real? - by brewer - September 25, 2021 at 9:09 am
RE: Is love real? - by Ahriman - September 25, 2021 at 9:17 am
RE: Is love real? - by Spongebob - September 25, 2021 at 10:09 am
RE: Is love real? - by Ahriman - September 25, 2021 at 12:06 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Angrboda - September 25, 2021 at 12:14 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Spongebob - September 25, 2021 at 12:24 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Angrboda - September 25, 2021 at 10:11 am
RE: Is love real? - by Brian37 - September 23, 2021 at 7:25 pm
RE: Is love real? - by The Grand Nudger - September 24, 2021 at 10:02 am
RE: Is love real? - by The Grand Nudger - September 24, 2021 at 6:34 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Spongebob - September 24, 2021 at 6:41 pm
RE: Is love real? - by HappySkeptic - September 24, 2021 at 9:09 pm
RE: Is love real? - by no one - September 25, 2021 at 12:18 pm
RE: Is love real? - by Angrboda - September 25, 2021 at 12:21 pm
RE: Is love real? - by The Grand Nudger - September 25, 2021 at 12:49 pm
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