(August 30, 2015 at 11:09 pm)Deidre32 Wrote: Are you nice to people who aren't nice to you (first) or are you nice to all people? In other words, are you a 'give what you have received' type of person? Just curious.
I tend to treat everyone well, but if someone disrespects me in some way, or devalues my friendship, I won't treat them in the same way, but I may just back away, and keep my distance. I don't believe you need to stoop to someone's level, or seek revenge simply because they have wronged you. But, just curious how you all approach things like this?
I would say I'm exactly the same way. The default position is nice to all without passing judgment. However, once I'm disrespected, I just keep my distance. I've learned you will never get everyone to like or respect you and that's ok.
We are not made happy by what we acquire but by what we appreciate.