(January 10, 2016 at 1:41 pm)Chad32 Wrote: You decided to get intimate with a drunk person, and are upset that he didn't stop at the point you wanted to stop. Now I know what he did was wrong, but what she did was also wrong. Rape is not ok, but you should also not put yourself in that kind of position if you aren't planning to go all the way. If you don't want to have sex, don't get naked and start kissing someone. especially someone who is drunk.
Now if a woman just happens to be walking down the street in a revealing outfit, and she gets jumped and raped, I put full blame on the rapists. But there's a difference between a poor innocent victim going about their day, and getting raped, and someone who decided she wants to get naked and kiss a drunk guy, and expecting him to know when to stop.
getting run over by a car is a horrible thing, but if you were playing in the street when it happened it's a little bit your fault. Context is important.
Someone is going to hate me for saying this....
If you know someone is drunk and you get naked and take a shower with them and kiss them....that is morally reprehensible....arguably abhorrent in this case IMO. Being labeled a rapist is pretty life ruining, if this story is legit then yes what the guy did was rape and it was wrong and inexcusable, but what she did was also wrong and inexcusable IMO.
