(January 12, 2016 at 12:46 pm)The_Empress Wrote:(January 12, 2016 at 12:40 pm)Losty Wrote: Yea yea...I'm a horrible person for judging how she deals with her grief I know. But I can't help it. I want to say "everyone deals with grief differently and that's fine". But my mind refuses. Having been raped myself, this sort of thing seems like sensationalizing rape and it hits a raw nerve for me.
I've been raped too, and I don't like the way she's handling it either. What I have a problem with in this thread is people acting like they know what happened or how anyone reacts to anything. We're all different, and Instagram in and of itself isn't an indicator that she was not in face raped.
I agree. I didn't mean to imply that it means she's lying. I only meant, rape isn't a fun thing you do on Instagram like posting pics of your lunch.
I know I have no right to tell other people how they should react to being raped. It doesn't stop me feeling like the type of response in the OP is harmful.