Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!

[MTL]

I stand by what I said.

Everyone should be held responsible for their actions.

Pool. Even IF she agreed to have sex with him, by him forcing her to do what she didn't want was still rape.

Goddamned idiot.

And I shall give you a story. About 6 years ago a female friend and I had been drinking. She tried it on, I said to her "you're drunk" and sent her home home in a cab that I paid for. That's what men do, they don't go and rape women who are vulnerable.

Both smart, and honourable.  Bravo!!

That is not just what men do...that is what GENTLEMEN do!


If a woman is too drunk to object to sex,
and a man has sex with her, anyways,
(regardless of whether he, himself, is sober, or drunk as well)
...that is rape.

However,

If I, as a woman, get drunk,
and initiate and consent to have sex with a man,
(regardless of whether he, himself, is sober or not)
and then I wake up the next day,
remembering that I consented to it,
and I now regret it,
that, IMO, is NOT rape.

If I can recall consenting to sex,
I'm NOT going to turn around and cry "Rape!"

[b]I will blame myself for getting drunk
and then making bad decisions as a result.

I must be accountable for MY choices, too.


[/b]Now,

I might think he took advantage of me,
depending on the situation,
and was not very honourable

...but that still wouldn't make him a rapist...just a dirtbag.

Note:

Anytime alcohol or drugs are involved,
the sober and/or physically stronger party risks being accused of sexual assault;
the wise thing to do, is to wait until the other party is sober before having sex,
although I'm sure this often doesn't happen.