Our server costs ~$56 per month to run. Please consider donating or becoming a Patron to help keep the site running. Help us gain new members by following us on Twitter and liking our page on Facebook!
Current time: June 2, 2024, 9:32 pm

Thread Rating:
  • 0 Vote(s) - 0 Average
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
Telling my parents
#13
RE: Telling my parents
(July 27, 2016 at 4:36 pm)kikiwallflower Wrote: Hello, I am almost 19 years old, living in a christian household. My parents are very active in the church, I have not been going recently and my parents haven't mentioned it. They usually just let me sleep cause I was at work late, etc.  I am going on a month long trip with my boyfriend in November and immediately after we will be moving into an apartment together. I am finically independent besides my cell phone, and living in their home.  None of my brothers and I actively show interest in church or the bible but they still assume we believe in god.  

I do not know how and when to tell them I am no longer a believer. I have to tell them because they are so against sex before marriage and cohabitation that they need to know I don't think its wrong because I am an athiest. They are super close minded and will be very angry and sad and there will be lots of arguing. Does anyone have any advice or been in a similar situation?

Thank you!

I would just answer their questions as they come. Don't feel the need to spell it all out. If they are asking the questions, they should be ready for answers they might not like.
You don't have to go down in my basement. - Dan Barker

The invisible and the non-existent look very much alike. - Delos McKown
Reply



Messages In This Thread
Telling my parents - by kikiwallflower - July 27, 2016 at 4:36 pm
RE: Telling my parents - by Minimalist - July 27, 2016 at 4:47 pm
RE: Telling my parents - by The Valkyrie - July 27, 2016 at 4:48 pm
RE: Telling my parents - by brewer - July 27, 2016 at 4:58 pm
RE: Telling my parents - by I_am_not_mafia - July 27, 2016 at 4:59 pm
RE: Telling my parents - by Alex K - July 27, 2016 at 5:34 pm
RE: Telling my parents - by Whateverist - July 27, 2016 at 6:33 pm
RE: Telling my parents - by Losty - July 27, 2016 at 7:18 pm
RE: Telling my parents - by ignoramus - July 27, 2016 at 8:44 pm
RE: Telling my parents - by account_inactive - July 27, 2016 at 8:46 pm
RE: Telling my parents - by robvalue - July 28, 2016 at 6:27 am
RE: Telling my parents - by SteelCurtain - July 28, 2016 at 7:42 am
RE: Telling my parents - by Exfundy - July 28, 2016 at 10:56 am
RE: Telling my parents - by pocaracas - July 28, 2016 at 11:26 am
RE: Telling my parents - by PETE_ROSE - July 29, 2016 at 11:02 am
RE: Telling my parents - by robvalue - July 29, 2016 at 11:05 am
RE: Telling my parents - by FatAndFaithless - July 29, 2016 at 11:13 am
RE: Telling my parents - by robvalue - July 29, 2016 at 11:24 am
RE: Telling my parents - by Edwardo Piet - July 29, 2016 at 12:05 pm
RE: Telling my parents - by KevinM1 - July 29, 2016 at 12:38 pm
RE: Telling my parents - by kikiwallflower - August 6, 2016 at 11:18 pm
RE: Telling my parents - by bennyboy - July 30, 2016 at 6:17 am
RE: Telling my parents - by Patrick33 - July 30, 2016 at 10:04 am
RE: Telling my parents - by Alex K - July 30, 2016 at 6:00 pm
RE: Telling my parents - by KJV-reader - August 7, 2016 at 2:49 am

Possibly Related Threads...
Thread Author Replies Views Last Post
  OK Bill to allow parents to sue teachers if they teach anything that opposes religion Cecelia 28 2262 February 20, 2022 at 3:58 pm
Last Post: Ferrocyanide
  The soft toys parents hope connect kids to their faith zebo-the-fat 13 1290 October 31, 2021 at 3:50 am
Last Post: Paleophyte
  My Mormon parents NuclearEnergy 11 2387 October 9, 2021 at 7:26 pm
Last Post: Ferrocyanide
  Jesus had no parents Ferrocyanide 21 2180 October 7, 2021 at 8:42 pm
Last Post: Ferrocyanide
  Growing up, did your parents have weird rules because of religion GODZILLA 7 1232 November 15, 2018 at 1:34 pm
Last Post: BrianSoddingBoru4
  A religious delimma. (God Parents) ignoramus 2 698 June 29, 2018 at 6:21 pm
Last Post: vorlon13
  I have a question about religious parents Der/die AtheistIn 22 3831 January 25, 2018 at 7:56 pm
Last Post: brewer
  Telling fact from fiction robvalue 117 15122 July 23, 2016 at 8:19 pm
Last Post: bennyboy
  Being perceived as stubborn by my parents. Mystic 13 2884 December 27, 2014 at 10:11 pm
Last Post: dyresand
  Salvation Army: Gay parents deserve to be put to death Ryantology 56 14921 June 14, 2013 at 2:27 am
Last Post: fr0d0



Users browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)