(December 12, 2011 at 2:21 pm)Minimalist Wrote:(December 12, 2011 at 10:04 am)Zen Badger Wrote: Buy some atheist T-shirts
Here's a selection --
I have cool one -
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(December 12, 2011 at 9:09 am)Galileo Wrote: is anyone here an atheist married to someone who practices a religion actively?I am unmarried and widowed, but I'd like to spare my thoughts with you.
(December 12, 2011 at 9:09 am)Galileo Wrote: how on earth do you deal with it?Adapt the environment and survive [figure of speech]. You could discreetly test your husband to see how tolerant is he to Atheism. Till you are comfort to declare your atheism.
-Watch the show of Atheist Vs. Creationist debate with your husband or the movie: The history of the world part 1 [1981 film]
-Or walking with your husband through the streets where hateful Christians, preaching priests and people with the posters with message: "Repent! Or burn in hell!" are commonly seen.
-Or find the movie with the story of romance love [or forbidden love] between man and woman, yet their families' difference of religion ripped lovers apart. The story of Romeo and Juliet, for example. Afterwards, You can ask him randomly, subtle question: which do your husband value more, religion or love?
(December 12, 2011 at 9:09 am)Galileo Wrote: It did however ask me my religion on the form, and I had the interpreter put down Atheist, but my husband must not have been listening or something.Are you unsure [or certain] of your husband did not listened? If unsure, there's possibility your husband knew.
(December 12, 2011 at 9:09 am)Galileo Wrote: My husband just assumed I believed in god, something that I find annoying in itself.If husband knew you are an atheist, then he probably assumed you as "lost soul" needs the guide.
(December 12, 2011 at 9:09 am)Galileo Wrote: since then we have had any number of arguments over all kinds of things...and it's wearing me out, I can tell you.What is the kind of arguments you had with your husband?
I don't know your husband, but I can say this one:
Soon or later, your husband will inevitably learn the fact that you are atheist. If he is being disrespectful and being intolerant towards you. You can tell your husband if he won't adapt, be tolerant, be respectful for your love, divorce him. It's obvious that husband value his religion more than love.
