(October 7, 2013 at 5:11 am)KichigaiNeko Wrote: How about just acceptance?
No I'm not "perfect" (what ever the fuck THAT is) and neither are you....so what?
I have news for you. I AM perfect. jk!
Quote:You only get one chance with me, fuck that up and I will move on and leave you. You can apologise until you are blue in the face, you have broken my trust and while I will not come at you with any sort of weapon, I will never let you "into my life" again whilst forgiving my self for being so naive as to trust you in the first place.
I've adopted this as my newest policy over the past year. I dated so many douchebags, it's unreal. But, that spoke more about my own flaws, than theirs. I kept attracting douchebags. So, now? If you are a douche, you're out...and my life has become much simpler because of it. True friends, who mess up here and there...they get more chances, as like you say, I'm not perfect, either. But, I refuse to tolerate toxic people anymore. The ability to look after myself is something I never did much of, and there are all too many men out there waiting to devour vulnerable people.
Quote:Life is far too short to worry about those who do you harm.Yes, I agree!