RE: Pro-life atheists
May 21, 2014 at 10:06 am
(This post was last modified: May 21, 2014 at 10:07 am by *Deidre*.)
(May 20, 2014 at 11:52 pm)Zidneya Wrote:(May 20, 2014 at 10:57 pm)Deidre32 Wrote: Well, this gets a bit sticky when for example, a woman is not on birth control, doesn't tell the dude she's sleeping with that little piece of info, gets pregnant, and expects the guy to pay child support until the kid is 18.
In such cases, then the women wants the guy to be responsible. Well, if you leave the man out of your decision to abort a baby, then you need to leave him out of your decision to have a baby, if you didn't take precautions against having a baby to begin with.
As women, we can't expect to have our cake and eat it too.
Ohh if only more women think like you.
I look at it like no one is holding a gun to anyone's head to fuck. If you're in a situation where you are not on bc (as a woman) and the guy you're with doesn't have protection, might be best to not fuck that night if you don't want to incur the possibility of an unwanted pregnancy. Pretty simple. There are other activities which can be quite satisfying too that fall short of intercourse.
If a couple isn't using bc, of any form, they shouldn't be shocked at the potential consequences of having sex. (Of course, this excludes rape and other scenarios whereby a woman might find herself dealing with an unwanted pregnancy)
I'm for keeping abortion safe and legal but I'm for educating women and men on the precautions to preventing unwanted pregnancies in the first place.