True.
A hint of crazy can be fun, if you feel safe that deep down the person is stable when needed. You know, freakishly crazy, yet stable.
When speaking of an actual behavioral health challenge that is not being controlled and is being triggered by irrational perceptions of anything (relationships, ideas, motives, etc.), then you have yourself a problem. When someone is actually stalking you, it's not sexy. When a person believes they are in a relationship with you even after you have repeatedly stated the contrary, there's a problem. When a person believes you are conspiring against her/him when in fact, you have tried to ignore the person for the longest time, that's a scary thing. When a person threatens you, because... you don't understand, this is real love, run! I love working with behavioral health challenged people, but when the person struggling with a challenge is triggered by emotions related to me... I think it's clear their is conflict of interest, safety concerns, and progress interruptions, and my help is no longer required. I always thought that as a friend, I had to stick around to help a friend even if this person began to act irrational and insane towards me, but I have discovered that to think I can be of any help when I am a trigger is also irrational.
For a person to behave crazy in all the right ways can be sexy. For a person to actually be crazy should be a concern.
A hint of crazy can be fun, if you feel safe that deep down the person is stable when needed. You know, freakishly crazy, yet stable.
When speaking of an actual behavioral health challenge that is not being controlled and is being triggered by irrational perceptions of anything (relationships, ideas, motives, etc.), then you have yourself a problem. When someone is actually stalking you, it's not sexy. When a person believes they are in a relationship with you even after you have repeatedly stated the contrary, there's a problem. When a person believes you are conspiring against her/him when in fact, you have tried to ignore the person for the longest time, that's a scary thing. When a person threatens you, because... you don't understand, this is real love, run! I love working with behavioral health challenged people, but when the person struggling with a challenge is triggered by emotions related to me... I think it's clear their is conflict of interest, safety concerns, and progress interruptions, and my help is no longer required. I always thought that as a friend, I had to stick around to help a friend even if this person began to act irrational and insane towards me, but I have discovered that to think I can be of any help when I am a trigger is also irrational.
For a person to behave crazy in all the right ways can be sexy. For a person to actually be crazy should be a concern.
Pointing around: "Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, you're cool, fuck you, I'm out!"
Half Baked
"Let the atheists come to me, and stop keeping them away, because the kingdom of heathens belongs to people like these." -Saint Bacon
Half Baked
"Let the atheists come to me, and stop keeping them away, because the kingdom of heathens belongs to people like these." -Saint Bacon
