(March 6, 2012 at 4:32 pm)kılıç_mehmet Wrote: Well, if you were a relative of mine, I surely wouldn't be so polite as I'm now.
Your actions deserve no praise whatsoever. Nor do the actions of your parents.
By whose measuring stick?
(March 6, 2012 at 4:32 pm)kılıç_mehmet Wrote: There are ways that allow you to "earn" money the easier and more respectable way, namely, marrying some well-earning, good-doer fellow, he'd give you a credit card and a car.
"There are never so many rich men as pretty girls who deserve them." Jane Austen wrote that somewhere over 250 years ago I think. Regardless, you want a woman to marry you solely for your money? In exchange for what? That's respectable? Respectable is him knowing what he's paying for and the transaction ending there. Prettying it up with marriage is fucking bullshit.
(March 6, 2012 at 4:32 pm)kılıç_mehmet Wrote: Here, we do have a set of limits. I also think that your part of the world has the same set of limits, but I think that it's just you that happens to ignore the limits that society set before you.The limits are the ones the religious right have put on society. They don't speak for everyone.
(March 6, 2012 at 4:32 pm)kılıç_mehmet Wrote: I believe in equality between men and women, however you said that it was in your hands to either allow him to advance on you, or not.
You did allow him, did you not? It just comes down to the same spot.
I think you're missing the entire fucking point: all she wanted was sex. That was all she got. Until she realized she was pregnant. Then all she wanted was for him to act like any other responsible adult on this planet and have a little care for the being he brought into this world. He was the one who turned it into a mess. Not her.
(March 6, 2012 at 4:32 pm)kılıç_mehmet Wrote: Well, everyone does what they want. I do what I want. But I think, before I act.
And it's really unfortunate that you got pregnant once more, I hope it doesn't happen again.
And I'm sure you inspect every condom you use thoroughly, or watch a woman take every one of her contraceptives for a month before having sex with her? Alei thinks before she acts too. Shit happens.
(March 6, 2012 at 4:32 pm)kılıç_mehmet Wrote: And look where it got you, Aleia. With another child that you have to take care of, alone, according to your statements.
One night of pleasure for such trouble. But at the end, bearing the consequences is the least you can do. As I said, the child-like mind, only understands it the hard way. But well, sometimes, luck just isn't on your side. In such times, it's best not to push it, and according to your words, you like to push yours.
Fucking hell I hope you don't become a father. Ever.
(March 6, 2012 at 4:32 pm)kılıç_mehmet Wrote: I still do not think that dealing in things that poison the minds of people is an honest deal. It's as honest as selling a weapon to a man who plans to kill another.
But well, it's America, right?
By the way, I wonder what the court would say if they knew that the father of the child was your dealer. Here, none of you would get custody of the child.
Make sure you say that to the next bartender who sells you booze.