(November 11, 2009 at 6:23 pm)Meatball Wrote:I do not understand why 'one-time bar hookups' even exist in the first place. Perhaps you would care to enlighten me? I certainly would hope that they do not make up the majority of sexual encounters for people... but my peers would seem to suggest negatively upon this hope.(November 11, 2009 at 6:07 pm)Saerules Wrote: If they are usually a part of it... then what the hell is a 'pick up line'? And why the hell are they so prevalent?Do you think one-time bar hookups are the majority of sexual experiences for humans? They aren't.
Quote:Most people have sex for personal connections. I'd even go as far as to say that a lot of bar hookups and one night stands are, in a roundabout way, striving for a personal connection too.
Then why start things off so quickly with sex? Can't that wait until there is a relationship first? Is sex not 'home run' so to speak? Why try for home when you haven't hit first base?
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day