(November 7, 2018 at 11:36 am)Shell B Wrote: It probably was my fault for engaging. I was actually interested in the story, though, so I gave the videos a try. That's when I got aggravated. I wasted all that time and he didn't even actually want to talk about it.
I have to agree with you but I don't think this was your fault. You engaged the way anyone else looking to discuss a topic, engaged. You weren't being responded to. I would have been a bit pissed myself if I had spent all that time watching videos on a subject only to feel like I was being ignored after getting involved in a particular thread. I read the last few pages of the thread where it started falling apart and I sensed there was more going on with Rob than this being a thread he wanted to get a discussion out of. While I personally wasn't interested in the subject, I at least thought that there would be more engagement from Rob with other people posting. What i saw was just out of character for Rob. That's sad.
Anyway, I hope he finds himself during this time. He really can contribute nicely to this place. It would be a shame if he quit over this.
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