RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 30, 2015 at 7:32 pm
(This post was last modified: November 30, 2015 at 7:39 pm by Whateverist.)
(November 30, 2015 at 4:56 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: As someone who suffered a terrible break up last year that involved lying and other stupid shit I didn't deserve, I can promise you that no "gotcha" moment actually gets justice for anything.
Yeah this goes to what we go into a relationship for in the first place. Is it really just to get the exclusive sexual use of a person we find attractive? Or does it involve any genuine regard/concern for that person? If I ever cared for her, why should I want to traumatize her or cause her to have even more difficulty making a relationship in the future? To do so does yourself a violence as well as her. Everyone understands the appeal of revenge. I just don't advocate it since it rarely satisfies.