Women's clothes?

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It's completely different when talking about "dressing sexy" and "dressing different".

For the simple fact that the term "Sexy" comes from what is defined as attractive by others, even if choosing what you personally find to be attractive it's all relative to what society has deemed it so. No one's going out in all black with makeup and stuff, goth and saying they are "Sexy" simply because they like the outfit. It relies entirely on other people, whereas in your comparison, being "goth" doesn't.


Would it make it okay for people to go around naked because that's simply how they want to express themselves?

Do people go to nudist beaches to express themselves? No, they go there to stray away from what they know is true of society; if you were to go nude in public it would get reactions, and lots of attention, and by doing so knowing that factor you are then seeking attention. That's why they have to go to a specific place, where the norm. is being nude, in order to feel as though they are normal. Therefore if a girl wears skimpy clothes in public, she should know she will get attention that's possibly unwanted, and by doing so is seeking attention because that is not the social norm. If it's so big of a deal to give yourself confidence then just do it in your own house, it defeats the purpose of "public" to say it's nothing to do with others.

I don't see how expressing yourself with "sexy" clothing is different from expressing yourself with any other type of clothing. You're being a bit biased, perhaps because you personally don't like having to deal with the temptation of gawking. 

As for going around naked, if they are in a nudist community, I don't see a problem with it at all (otherwise it would be a crime). If you look into nudist communities, it's mostly about the hippie, liberating lifestyle than it is about sex and tempting each other.

Yes, and why do you join a nudist colony? To get away from the societal norms of how you should dress, and the amount of clothing you should wear for it to be appropriate in public out of respect for the other people. Therefore someone dressing outside of the social norm. should know she will get looked at.

I've explained this many times you continue to ignore me, and say you simply "Don't understand". Sexy clothing is defined by what's ATTRACTIVE, so why are you dressing attractive while criticizing others for showing you attraction? It's silly! "Sexy clothes" are not worn in PUBLIC for solely PRIVATE gain. It defeats the whole purpose of 'public'. If you are wearing skimpy clothes, clothes that will inevitably grab men's attention, don't hypocritically say it has nothing to do with other people. IF IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH OTHERS GO WEAR IT IN PRIVATE IF IT MAKES YOU FEEL THAT GOOD.

Seriously, replace the word "sexy" with "attractive" clothing, and then tell me that you are wearing "attractive clothing" and weren't wanting other people to be attracted. This claim is beyond ridiculous and hypocritical..