(July 25, 2017 at 5:09 pm)Lutrinae Wrote:(July 25, 2017 at 5:08 pm)Regina Wrote: CIJS - Why did you bother messaging me first on Tinder, if you're only going to give me very much so one-sentence texts and replies like you're not interested?
I'm not mad at you, at least you're giving me "fuckboy time waster" upfront unlike a lot of other men so, but seriously these men have no idea what they want or personalities.
I thought Tinder was designed specifically for one night stands?
That's Grindr. Tinder is slightly less sleazy... slightly.
And that's another thing tbh, I hate how normalised using Grindr is with gay men. It's just so casually slipped into every conversation like it's so normal to only want hook-ups and nothing deeper.
And again, it's not the hook-ups themselves. I've had them, most of us have, and I'm not a hypocrite. But serious stop celebrating this ratchetness, like it's cute and liberating.
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"Ironically like the nativist far-Right, which despises multiculturalism, but benefits from its ideas of difference to scapegoat the other and to promote its own white identity politics; these postmodernists, leftists, feminists and liberals also use multiculturalism, to side with the oppressor, by demanding respect and tolerance for oppression characterised as 'difference', no matter how intolerable." - Maryam Namazie
"Ironically like the nativist far-Right, which despises multiculturalism, but benefits from its ideas of difference to scapegoat the other and to promote its own white identity politics; these postmodernists, leftists, feminists and liberals also use multiculturalism, to side with the oppressor, by demanding respect and tolerance for oppression characterised as 'difference', no matter how intolerable." - Maryam Namazie