(June 23, 2011 at 7:32 pm)Ace Otana Wrote: I've never been one to hit on women. Flirt maybe, or even ask out. Though I haven't asked anyone out in years.
Last person I asked out was Terri. She liked me as a friend and but was already with some other guy. So I got a rejection, I never spoke to her again, or saw her again. Been 6 years since I last saw or spoke to her.
Well, she was already seeing someone else, dude. You should have waited until she was single.
(June 23, 2011 at 7:32 pm)Ace Otana Wrote: Trust me, if a girl ever gives a hint of lack of interest or plain rejection, I'll jump to warp 9 and get the hell out of there. I never do try again. I just walk off and move on. Feelings and any interest I had just dies in a matter of minutes, maybe even hours.
It sounds like the possibility of rejection is repellent to you.
Romance and dating are confusing. I feel uncomfortable in most dating situations initially, so I'm usually a bitch if I get hit on when I hardly know someone. It's not because I am a bitch, well maybe, but it is mostly because I don't know how to handle it, so I get sarcastic and stand offish. The sad part is that I do the same thing when I really don't like someone, so I must make it really tough for guys. That's probably a good thing for them in the long run.