(June 23, 2011 at 7:55 pm)Ace Otana Wrote: For a while I had trust issues with girls. Still kinda do really. Especially thanks to Jess, my latest mistake.
I don't blame you. It is hard to trust people.
(June 23, 2011 at 7:55 pm)Ace Otana Wrote: When girls run off with other guys like that and randomly pop out kids, it just gives me more reason to not trust them.
Ugh. Nobody thinks about having kids anymore. My most recent ex, who is actually my husband whom I have managed to be nice to for the sake of my stepson, had a habit of trying to have sex with everything. If he met a new girl, he would pick fights with me, so he would have an excuse should he decide to sleep with her. After a few years of it, I noticed a pattern and had a WTF moment. I'm typically not superficial, but it always irked me that he was rather fat (which I never cared about. He gained a lot of weight after coming home from Iraq) and tried to cheat on me with fugly women. It does nothing for your self esteem, I'll tell you that much.
(June 23, 2011 at 7:55 pm)Ace Otana Wrote: I've always been far more comfortable with sexual relationships than proper emotional ones.
I can't say that I am comfortable with either. I hate putting myself out there in any way. However, I do wish for the latter. A life mate is such a romantic notion and I am a sucker for romantic notions.
(June 23, 2011 at 7:55 pm)Ace Otana Wrote: I've become very comfortable with being single, very uncomfortable with the idea of being in a relationship. Trust is a big thing to me when it comes to relationships.
Being single affords you more freedom. That is the best part, I think.
(June 23, 2011 at 7:55 pm)Ace Otana Wrote: Also it doesn't take much to push me away, unlike most guys. I can take a hint and very quickly. More untrustworthy girls who mess around that I meet, the less trust and comfort I have in any idea of a proper relationship. Trust levels are awfully low at the moment.
Then it probably is best that you don't date. How unfair would it be to take your low level of trust out on some poor girl?