(November 29, 2015 at 12:31 am)Judi Lynn Wrote: Clearly, he was hurt over her actions. He just found out three weeks prior to that video that she cheated on him. Would anyone have preferred he sink into a deep, dark depression and sat on the couch in self pity while eating chocolate or ice cream? No. Honestly, he did what HE thought needed to be done. Good on him for that.

We all deal with bad stuff in our own way. Some of it is destructive, some constructive. Clearly, he was covering his own ass by not destroying everything in sight.

Bottom line: She set him up for hurt when she cheated. He set her up for a non-physical bitch slapping by getting her hopes up about a vacation and then let her have it at the end, via a card. If he would have beat the shit out of her, the outrage would have been all over the place. Instead, he gave her her just desserts. She got what was coming to her. Instead of being violent (towards her or her stuff), he chose to creatively leave. Perhaps this will serve as a lesson to never do it to anyone else in the future. Outrageous things like this tend to leave quite an impression on a person and perhaps he gets to save the next guy in her life the shame of having to go through this. Perhaps she will now think twice before cheating on someone else.

And perhaps now, having been shamed publicly for thousands of people to see, she will go into a deep dark depression. He didn't need to post his revenge online to save his mental health.

They're both shit people and unjustified in their actions.

(November 29, 2015 at 7:03 am)Napoléon Wrote: You're all a bunch of fucking killjoys.

Yeah, sorry I don't find pleasure in watching two people being shit to each other. Real boring of me.

(November 29, 2015 at 9:29 am)Quantum Wrote: Yeah... you don't know joy until you have been publicly shamed on the internet...

Yes, that's exactly what I was insinuating wasn't it? Jackass.

(November 29, 2015 at 9:47 am)Vic Wrote: Yeah, sorry I don't find pleasure in watching two people being shit to each other. Real boring of me.

Yeah, it is.

(November 28, 2015 at 11:45 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: I'm just not understanding the particularly part without you ascribing a certain amount of femininity or masculinity to various aspects.

I'll have to agree with Thena on this. While negative traits are unattractive regardless of who has them, there are some that are particularly repulsive on men and some that are particularly repulsive on woman. Being petty is particularly repulsive on men. Being cold hearted is particularly repulsive on woman. Just my opinion. I don't have a problem with acknowledging differences between masculinity and femininity... It is those differences that makes each sex unique and special.  

Anyway, getting back to the actual subject of the thread, I can't say I blame the guy for doing what he did. I'd probably behave much worse if I caught someone I loved cheating on me, so who am I to judge? Not saying what he did is the right thing to do or the best and most honorable thing to do, but given the circumstances of what just happened to him, I don't blame him and won't be sitting on any sort of high moral ground.

Paul Simon nailed the answer to this question.  No need to blame anyone for not being who you wanted/needed them to be.  Just go.  No one owes you a damned thing.  You are not entitled to their participation in your fantasy of how it's supposed to go.  So yeah, just drop off the key, get on the bus and do what needs doing .. but with as little damage as possible.


https://youtu.be/K4xoHjNjxus

It's just...low rent to make a big, public production of it.

It was immature, low rent, unnecessary and all of that good stuff, but isn't that what he was going for? He didn't do it to seem smart or attractive, he wanted it to be spiteful and if spiteful was what he was going for then he did a good job.

(November 29, 2015 at 11:36 am)Whateverist the White Wrote: Paul Simon nailed the answer to this question.  No need to blame anyone for not being who you wanted/needed them to be.  Just go.  No one owes you a damned thing.  You are not entitled to their participation in your fantasy of how it's supposed to go.  So yeah, just drop off the key, get on the bus and do what needs doing .. but with as little damage as possible.


https://youtu.be/K4xoHjNjxus

Thank you for the earworm. I used to sing this song back in the 70's, in the car with my egg donor. Fun times.

(November 28, 2015 at 11:11 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I cheat all the time. It's the best. There is no sex that is better than cheat sex.

lol... trolling again huh?