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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 29, 2015 at 10:29 pm
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(November 29, 2015 at 9:38 pm)Thena323 Wrote: (November 29, 2015 at 6:27 pm)Losty Wrote:  Much ado about nothing. That's the explanation I was repeatedly asked for, for essentially stating why I thought this guy behaved like a cowardly bitch and didn't handle the situation like a man. If people somehow determine that I'm making an overarching statement in defining gender roles in general, they're really stretching it, and I suspect they know that. Or they didn't read all of the posts....I made clear that this guy's negative attributes weren't unique to, or even ascribed to most women.
Btw, be a man about it, act like a man and vice versa are also things people say when suggesting that someone act with a degree of integrity and dignity. It's a thing, you know.
Man up, act like a man, and be a real man are all phrases that disgust me. I get your point. They're phrases that are used and not necessarily even referring to a man when you say them, but the sentiment behind them is stupid.
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 29, 2015 at 10:43 pm
(November 29, 2015 at 10:29 pm)Losty Wrote: (November 29, 2015 at 9:38 pm)Thena323 Wrote:
Man up, act like a man, and be a real man are all phrases that disgust me. I get your point. They're phrases that are used and not necessarily even referring to a man when you say them, but the sentiment behind them is stupid.
Okay. You probably shouldn't use those terms, then.
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 29, 2015 at 10:46 pm
(November 29, 2015 at 10:29 pm)Losty Wrote: Man up, act like a man, and be a real man are all phrases that disgust me.
You and me both kitten.
Whenever I hear this phrase said to me... it's like instantly the biggest cringe ever and in my head I hear a very loud "Ughhhhhhhhhh!".
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 29, 2015 at 10:54 pm
(November 29, 2015 at 10:46 pm)Evie Wrote: (November 29, 2015 at 10:29 pm)Losty Wrote: Man up, act like a man, and be a real man are all phrases that disgust me.
You and me both kitten.
Whenever I hear this phrase said to me... it's like instantly the biggest cringe ever and in my head I hear a very loud "Ughhhhhhhhhh!".
I tried to man up, once, but I didn't have the balls...
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 29, 2015 at 10:58 pm
(November 29, 2015 at 10:54 pm)Beccs Wrote: (November 29, 2015 at 10:46 pm)Evie Wrote: You and me both kitten.
Whenever I hear this phrase said to me... it's like instantly the biggest cringe ever and in my head I hear a very loud "Ughhhhhhhhhh!".
I tried to man up, once, but I didn't have the balls...
I'm sure somewhere there's a pill for that. 
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 29, 2015 at 11:06 pm
I have some now...
...they're just not mine...
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 29, 2015 at 11:07 pm
LOL.
Excellent.
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 29, 2015 at 11:11 pm
(November 29, 2015 at 11:07 pm)Judi Lynn Wrote: LOL.
Excellent.
Actually. what I want are those fake ones you can hand out of the boot (trunk, for you Americans) of your car...
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 29, 2015 at 11:17 pm
Wait.. are we still talking pills or are we back to balls now?
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RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 29, 2015 at 11:17 pm
I can see how some people might view the phrases "Be a man about it." or "Be a woman about it." as negative. Some, such as myself simply see it as meaning "Quit being silly, weak and/or indecisive."
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