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Prepubescent Attraction

Poll: Were you, when you were prepubescent, already attracted to the gender you're attracted to as an adult?
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Other. Please explain.
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Prepubescent Attraction
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RE: Prepubescent Attraction
July 19, 2013 at 10:56 pm
please cite them, it is something i would like to read on.
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#22
RE: Prepubescent Attraction
July 19, 2013 at 11:21 pm
I was really close to other male friends before puberty, but I would not be able to stake those relationships as sexual.
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RE: Prepubescent Attraction
July 20, 2013 at 2:28 am (This post was last modified: July 20, 2013 at 2:35 am by Whateverist.)
(July 19, 2013 at 4:17 pm)NoraBrimstone Wrote: I was only attracted to girls when I was younger. I didn't find boys attractive at all till I was about 13/14 at least. Even then I still preferred girls for a few more years.

We're an acquired taste.
(July 19, 2013 at 6:33 pm)futilethewinds Wrote:
(July 19, 2013 at 6:30 pm)christcahinkilla Wrote: the idea that sexual orientation is determined at birth has no concrete evidence, it is a very far fetched idea.

sexual attraction is chemically explained in hormones and unless you were subjected to some kind of psychological manipulation those fantasies just don't make sense and i dont believe your testimony.

something i have seen is that people say 'sexual orientation is something determined at birth it's just the way you are' and that is a psychological attack and lie that can really screw someone up.. good to see all the little tricks tho!
My attraction was psychological, but I had sexual instincts. When I played Barbie, Barbie rolled around naked with her female "friend" while kissing her quite often. It doesn't matter if you believe me, it happened.

I want to believe you, but photos would sure help. (Not of the dolls.)


My wife, who is (boringly) exclusively hetero, once told me she had a crush on a female camp counselor when she was a young teen. You would not believe the fantasies I've gotten out of that one confession. Now all her fantasies just involve my making her available to men, plenty of men. Oh well ...
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#24
RE: Prepubescent Attraction
July 20, 2013 at 3:03 am
A very firm ('scuse the pun) memory was of me having an erection while being held by my babysitter. She would have been in her late teens. Me? I have no idea. At what age is it no longer likely to be able to hold a kid in the crook of your arm, against your very well-developed chest, legs akimbo around your body? I'd guess about 3? I have no memories before the age of 2, so the window of opportunity would have been a small one.

It seems like too early an age to have things functioning like that, but it definitely happened. I (obviously) had no idea what it meant and it was a distinct-enough (and limited-enough) of an occurrence to have registered a strong memory.

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RE: Prepubescent Attraction
July 20, 2013 at 3:49 am
Yeah, most certainly.
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RE: Prepubescent Attraction
July 20, 2013 at 2:40 pm
(July 20, 2013 at 2:28 am)whateverist Wrote: My wife, who is (boringly) exclusively hetero, once told me she had a crush on a female camp counselor when she was a young teen. You would not believe the fantasies I've gotten out of that one confession. Now all her fantasies just involve my making her available to men, plenty of men. Oh well ...

My wife is way bi. It's awesome when she gets in a mood and goes, "Let's go to the strip club!" We get hammered, flirt with all the girls, and when we get back she's ranting half the night, "Oh my god she was so fucking hot!"
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RE: Prepubescent Attraction
July 20, 2013 at 2:44 pm
(July 19, 2013 at 10:56 pm)christcahinkilla Wrote: please cite them, it is something i would like to read on.
This page cites some of them. It would kind of be a pain in the ass to track every single study down.
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RE: Prepubescent Attraction
July 20, 2013 at 2:49 pm
(July 20, 2013 at 2:44 pm)futilethewinds Wrote:
(July 19, 2013 at 10:56 pm)christcahinkilla Wrote: please cite them, it is something i would like to read on.
This page cites some of them. It would kind of be a pain in the ass to track every single study down.

Too true, futile.

Christcahinkilla, it's called google. If you haven't learned how to use it yet you need to start learning now.
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RE: Prepubescent Attraction
July 20, 2013 at 2:56 pm
I liked a girl for the first time when I was six. There was some touching involved.

I liked a boy for the first time when I was seven.

First time having sex was with a male. Second time was with a female. Yes, it happened in the same week. Bam! I was feeling lots of urges.
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RE: Prepubescent Attraction
July 20, 2013 at 2:58 pm
(July 20, 2013 at 2:56 pm)Ivy Wrote: First time having sex was with a male. Second time was with a female. Yes, it happened in the same week. Bam! I was feeling lots of urges.

Damn. You go girl.
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