(August 20, 2015 at 9:51 am)mh.brewer Wrote: There is something I'm not getting. A common event for me.
What do you think you need to make and amend for? PM if you'd like.
My disinterest with dating her best friend led to some teenage drama. I wasn't terribly nice in our last communication.
As for the amend, my 4th step (the weird beastie it is apparently compared to most others) deemed most everything that occurred prior to my turning 18 as mostly immune to 8th and 9th step issues lest I deemed otherwise.
As for the drama, it was a letter to her, one I hope she has lost track of. I don't have the clearest recollection of it, but I'm sure I characterized her as irrational, stupid and way too emotional. Like I wasn't at the time. I'm sure I wasn't very nice, I didn't hear from any of the 3 of them for 40 years.
I'm also thinking my reaction to her yesterday "So this is what became of you" wasn't something she wanted to hear either.
No matter what has happened to her in the interim, and by her looks, quite a bit indeed, she doesn't need to be around me. I don't intend for the term 'fag hag' to be a slur this occasion, but that would be the best extent of any association in my orbit she could hope for these days.
Her high school best friend certainly escaped a dreadful experience, I've always considered gay men that deliberately married (women, thank you SCOTUS) for convenience or camouflage to be exceptionally loathsome. That I might have been merely dating to 'make a statement' doesn't reflect well on me.
The granting of a pardon is an imputation of guilt, and the acceptance a confession of it.
