We always blame our parents for stuff(hell, I've probably got even more legit shit to blame them for than anyone around here - I think so, at least, but that's too personal to share and find out) but in the end we've got to aknowledge that they're every bit as human as we are and so liable to be imperfect. Not everyone was cut to be the perfect dad or the perfect mom. People are inevitably constrained within their own egos fuelled by their different experiences and genetical makeups. Remember that when you assign too much blame on a man who probably sees the world a whole lot different than you do and probably isn't able to comprehend what he's putting you through or how bad it really is. You should look at it from a more detached point of view, you know what I mean?
If there's anything I know it's that people like us, traumatized to however small a degree by the people they loved the most and especially in the earliest parts of their lives, tend to grow uncanny knacks useful in life. We are stronger for what we went through and are thus able to see through much more bullshit than the average type can. We can also be more sympathetic to people for that same reason. That doesn't mean we're all the same, just that we have the same pure intentions in the end- where people are concerned- because we already know what it is to have your trust betrayed or to witness bad behaviour, hypocrisy in an authority figure and so on.
I guess what I'm saying is stay strong and know that you're good. Don't let your unhappy circumstances break you. Life only is and will forever be what you make of it. Attitude matters. So stay brave.
If there's anything I know it's that people like us, traumatized to however small a degree by the people they loved the most and especially in the earliest parts of their lives, tend to grow uncanny knacks useful in life. We are stronger for what we went through and are thus able to see through much more bullshit than the average type can. We can also be more sympathetic to people for that same reason. That doesn't mean we're all the same, just that we have the same pure intentions in the end- where people are concerned- because we already know what it is to have your trust betrayed or to witness bad behaviour, hypocrisy in an authority figure and so on.
I guess what I'm saying is stay strong and know that you're good. Don't let your unhappy circumstances break you. Life only is and will forever be what you make of it. Attitude matters. So stay brave.
