(November 17, 2010 at 5:02 pm)Rhizomorph13 Wrote: I'm a fan of light BDSM. I have a kit with two adjustable straps and four neoprene love cuffs with velcro fasteners. They are comfy and easy to release in the event of a freakout. I have very fond memories that I can't share because they are vile pornography. I am definitly a strong dom and have been told that I must be willing to submit if I want to engage in BDSM or it is "unfair". I strongly dissagree with that statement because, hey, I likes what I likes!
Never once when experimenting in any of this have I ever wanted to be a dom - which I should think might be considered "unfair" since they're the ones doing all the damn work. If I don't want to swing a whip, I don't see why someone else "must" give me a turn.
You're agreeing to a certain role when you engage in this sort of play...if you don't like to play that role, you're not going to do it effectively. And if you're not giving 110%, or not comfortable...what the hell's the point? Just my opinion, anyway.
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