BDSM

[thesummerqueen]

I'd be afraid that the woman would tie me up and then get distracted by something else.

Theres an episode in the old bbc serial the new statesman where alan b'stard ties a girl to a bed and then goes shopping.

This would be my fear.

That's where the trust factor comes in. I don't let just anyone tie me up. Not "just anyone" deserves it.

Or knows how to do it right; half the fun is the struggle. Men (and Angelina Jolie, I still hope for you every day): please remember your boyscout knot tying lessons. Otherwise I'll consider you an ineffective captor. No respect = no surrender.

Thanks for the clue as to your age in the shoutbox, by the way - now I know why you had to have a lie down after my "Jeep girls like it topless and dirty" comment.