(October 5, 2015 at 10:49 pm)Exian Wrote: I'm with you, MTL. I really don't go for the obviously fake. Not that it's bad if its your thing, but my take on it is- if you look exactly the same naked as you do dressed, then you're really not offering up any vulnerability, and it's exactly that trusting exposure that I find incredibly sexy and intimate. Nothing turns me on more than trusting me with your flaws.
Interesting.
Does the same apply if a partner trusts you enough to tell you a fantasy she's never shared?
Or something new that she had to work up the nerve to ask you to try?
What if the thing that she wants to do, specifically, doesn't turn you on
....but the fact that she trusted you enough to ask, in the first place....does?