(October 30, 2015 at 11:33 am)Evie Wrote: So if I spend all my time thinking so much like a door mouse who a read too many library books do I automatically ultimately end up in corner clutching knees and rocking back and forth? Must I sometimes go outside like a lemony manslut and come out of turtle shell so I not have spiralling mind?
Does thinking all the time introspectively automatically eventually lead to anxiety and worry?
Do I sometimes have to get out of myself and reach out to avoid worry?
Is it good for even the most shy, introverted and introspective of us to reach out of ourselves and be social when we can?
This is hypothetical, in practice I reach out to others and be social a lot these days even though I am mostly an introvert. It makes me very happy.
I like being out of myself.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dA7fNZuzFFc
My own theory is that language is or should be only for interpersonal communication. Everything can be realized wordlessly. Language is for telling another. I enjoy tasks and activities in which I can get lost in the doing. Evaluation can still come up but if you get out of the habit of conducting it or any other form of realization using interpersonal language, I think you're better off. You're not giving up language, you're just reserving it for what it does best. Stick to what you feel and realize and language will serve you better. You shouldn't have to focus on the medium to get out a message.
