how homophobic is it where you are

[Edwardo Piet]

I tend to find that homophobia mostly tends to be mixed with people who are tolerant to homosexuals but still harbour a bit of a dislike to them (and of course I mean more than a sexual distaste, I'm not saying that only homosexuals aren't homophobic) in secret, which I still count as homophobia.... so I think homophobia is quite common around here, although there are still plenty of people who are not homophobic, and I wouldn't say it was particularly homophobic around here at all.