I don't see anything wrong with either method - In my country the tradition is for the wife to keep the spouse's name, but you can do as you please. I think the husband can take the name as well, but I'm not 100% certain. I'm indifferent to it but my girlfriend wants to keep my name if we ever get married. She's into a lot of traditionalist stuff. I don't mind it.
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