Women's clothes?

[*Deidre*]

My fiance says they look hot when we work out at the gym together. 

They can be undeniably sexy, and many men love them.

but the argument that I am currently having with the user "Heat", in this thread, is as follows:

Heat is complaining that women:

1.  ONLY wear yoga pants because they know they are sexy and drive men crazy

2.  ...THEN claim that they only wear them for comfort

3.  ...THEN, when men complain that the pants are too sexy and thus distracting,
and that women should dress in a less-provocative way,
that those same women THEN get on their high horse and scream "Misogynist!" !!


I am arguing that while that may be true of SOME women,

I, as a woman, ONLY wear them because they are comfortable, versatile, and practical.

Personally, I do NOT wear yoga pants when I want to be sexy;
but I do NOT judge women who DO,
and I don't think anyone should be telling women how sexy they may or may not dress, in public.

Ah, I see. Your rebuttal is very on point. And I agree.

My thought is that I'm rather tired of guys telling women how to dress and so what if a woman dresses sexy in order to distract men. Men are dolts who are automatically distracted by women's attire now? lol Men have minds of their own...and not all men will walk into walls at the first sight of a woman in yoga pants. 

This sounds like a convo I'd see over on a christian forum, not here.   lol Religious men often blame women for why they are 'lusting' after them and 'sinning.'

I understand the premise, but it is interesting to see this type of mindset outside of a religious context.