(January 16, 2016 at 9:41 pm)bennyboy Wrote:(January 16, 2016 at 9:13 pm)Thena323 Wrote: Yeah, but this tug war primarily exists in places where people's ideologies render them unable to mind their own godddamned business. From where I and many others stand, there simply is no tug war on this particular matter.
I wear whatever the hell I want to wear.
Don't like it? Too fucking bad.
THE END
You are welcome to wear whatever you want. But if you wear clothes that reveal or accentuate your sexuality, in the eyes of others, then do not complain when those eyes are looking at you as an object of sexual interest. If your boobs are showing, and men look at them, you don't get to say, "Like oh my gawwwwwd I'm up here!" and if your camel-toe vagina is showing through your tight yoga pants, you don't get to be surprised when men start drooling and staring at your crotch.
Perhaps women shouldn't be "surprised" when that happens, but that still doesn't give men an excuse to objectify a woman. Men are not dogs and still have the ability to look away or to refrain from seeing a fellow human being as an object.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh
