RE: Women's clothes?
January 16, 2016 at 11:00 pm
(This post was last modified: January 16, 2016 at 11:01 pm by MTL.)
(January 16, 2016 at 9:41 pm)bennyboy Wrote:(January 16, 2016 at 9:13 pm)Thena323 Wrote: I wear whatever the hell I want to wear.
Don't like it? Too fucking bad.
You are welcome to wear whatever you want. But if you wear clothes that reveal or accentuate your sexuality, in the eyes of others, then do not complain when those eyes are looking at you as an object of sexual interest. If your boobs are showing, and men look at them, you don't get to say, "Like oh my gawwwwwd I'm up here!" and if your camel-toe vagina is showing through your tight yoga pants, you don't get to be surprised when men start drooling and staring at your crotch.
Thena already replied to Heat, on this point...she said:
Quote:Stare where you like, Heat. Keep it at that, and I truly couldn't give a shit.
bennyboy,
I'd like to think that if I were a man, and a woman just wanted to play headgames with me,
I would be smarter than to play along.
If she's the type that dresses that way because she wants to get laid,
then she won't mind you noticing,
(as long as you're not scary about it).
But,
If she's the type that wants to exaggerate her "boobs and camel-toe",
AND wants to give you a hard time for noticing them
...then just walk away, man. Ignore her completely.
(Obviously you're not getting into her pants,
so why hang around after she rebukes you)?
Instead, the response I'm hearing from you guys is this:
You're saying that if a woman plays games with you,
by dressing that provocatively,
AND objecting to your noticing,
that instead of walking away and ignoring her stupid games,
....you're going to retaliate....by staring.
First of all, this is a juvenile response. It is frat-boy behavior.
Secondly, it is also not very smart.
If the situation escalates for any reason, and she calls the cops, you will be the ones in trouble.
Thirdly, it plays right into her hands.
She wanted to play a game,
and here you are being her puppet.
Whereas if you just walk away, her game is over.
Finally, it accomplishes NOTHING.
She is not worth the time, if she is the type who plays games.
There are better women out there who will not play games.
Why waste your time with her?