(January 16, 2016 at 11:21 pm)MTL Wrote:(January 16, 2016 at 11:14 pm)bennyboy Wrote: Actually, I think there's a hidden double-standard here. When a woman dresses provocatively, I think she knows it. And if the RIGHT PERSON notices, she'll be happy as hell. What she doesn't like is when someone she doesn't want to attract is attracted-- that is annoying for her. And that is a double standard, because she's judging some men as not being sexy/attractive/rich/whatever enough to deserve the show that she's putting on. In making herself attractive and enforcing standards, she's not only objectifying herself, but the men who she might implicity reject.
Do you think if Tom Cruise came up and stared at a woman's chest and said, "Mhhh hmmm, you are so beautiful" that she'd shout "Fuck you, Tom Cruise! Stop fucking objectifying me!"
I don't think so. That treatment is reserved for sub-standard mouth breathers like me and the other 90% of real human males.
Oh dear god.
i see the problem now.
If a sexy woman doesn't respond to your advances,
then SHE is guilty of being judgmental.
Silly me.
She should be diplomatic and sleep with every guy who makes an advance.
That would be the democratic approach. Thanks.
