Heat, I now understand what you mean, you are confused and irritated by how women say it's offensive when a guy look at them when they dress sexy even when that's exactly what she wanted to happen when she dressed sexy - to be sexually desirable. Then they go on and on about how this is objectifying women and bla bla bla. *women*
What you don't understand, due to your lack of experience in these matters is this is common human behavior, it is a form of self-flattery. What's the word? Boasting? Yeah, you get the picture, some chicks do this because this increases their sexual value in other's eyes(or at least they think, god knows it's annoying). It's not hypocritical, they actually likes the attention, but claiming how they hate all the attention and they can't go out without guys drooling over them is a form of self-flattery they employ to boost their self-worth/confidence and increase their value in the eyes of others.
Yeah, I know, the chicks that do this are extremely annoying - ignore them at all costs but don't make it so explicit that it's offensive. Nod and agree with them giving the impression that you're falling for it but keep in mind that you don't want to get involved with these chicks, these types are the ones that people call attention seekers, and that's what they are trying to get so don't give it to them - ignore them, that'll drive 'em nuts hahaha.
What you don't understand, due to your lack of experience in these matters is this is common human behavior, it is a form of self-flattery. What's the word? Boasting? Yeah, you get the picture, some chicks do this because this increases their sexual value in other's eyes(or at least they think, god knows it's annoying). It's not hypocritical, they actually likes the attention, but claiming how they hate all the attention and they can't go out without guys drooling over them is a form of self-flattery they employ to boost their self-worth/confidence and increase their value in the eyes of others.
Yeah, I know, the chicks that do this are extremely annoying - ignore them at all costs but don't make it so explicit that it's offensive. Nod and agree with them giving the impression that you're falling for it but keep in mind that you don't want to get involved with these chicks, these types are the ones that people call attention seekers, and that's what they are trying to get so don't give it to them - ignore them, that'll drive 'em nuts hahaha.
