(January 18, 2016 at 11:36 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote:Thanks, but every thing happens for a reason, that lessons might be learned.(January 18, 2016 at 9:57 am)popsthebuilder Wrote: So saying that a person is less likely to be a victim if they minimize the stimuli for being a victim doesn't make since to you.
I'm just defending rapist huh?
Let me give you an example;
One night at approx. 2am my significant other and I went out to celebrate her birthday against my better judgement in New Orleans.
I being a native of sorts kinda knew better, but went anyway.
Upon arrival a predatory criminal noticed us. Long story short I was robbed, my woman was nearly dragged off and raped and I was shot at.
Now, if I had used the little judgement, instead of letting greed and pride cloud my judgement I could have averted the crime by easily not putting myself in that situation in the first place.
I guess to you, I'm defending the dog that robbed, attempted to rape, and shot at me though, right?
Get your head out of your Ass.
Faith in selfless Unity for Good.
Pops, first of all I am so sorry about what happened to you and your girl.
Please understand we are not saying precautions shouldn't be taken in order to not put yourself in dangerous situations... such as walking through the ghettos at night or something. We are simply making the point that dress doesn't really play a role here. I think part of the reason why you are getting such hostile responses is because of the tone and attitude of your first post - particularly referring to a woman as a "whore." That's just not going to go well with anyone.
Never said a scantily dressed woman was a literal whore. Not did I say a sexual man was a rapist.
Faith in selfless Unity for Good.