(February 16, 2016 at 2:01 pm)Divinity Wrote: Drich is a fucking asshole.Actually I give the illusion of being a f-ing b-hole.. If you guys stopped and thought about what i am actually saying
you might actually agree with a point or two.. I know this to be true because many of you think your argueing against me, but are using the very same points i am using.
Quote:Whenever I read his comments he reminds me of Pat Robertson. That's probably a good thing according to him.I guess, I don't know who that is..
Quote:No sense of belonging? Really?Nuupe try again. I said an interracial kid can belong and often will be loved. They will not have any sense of racial belonging unless the look like one race or the other. if they look like an even mixture of both, they will struggle with this racial identity the rest of they life.
Quote: This is fucking America dipshit.Are you really that stupid g-ma? (does pat robertson call people stupid?)
Do you know the rest of the world is not America, and do you understand the world does not opperate on blue state values? Heck even all of America does not operate on blue state values.
Quote: We're a motherfucking cultural mixing pot.So... if your grand kids stay in the blue states they will be fine... To you this is normal? this is what you want for your grand kids, to limit them where their ethnicity is not questioned or challenged?? What happens when they wander out of the milk chocolate/melting pot safe environment they grew up in and get challenged by some all black or all white kids or Both sets kids?
Quote:As the white grandmother to two black grandchildren, I'd say my family are doing fucking fine fitting in.As an interracial PERSON I say give it time.
Sure, there's some racist assholes out there. I don't give a shit about their opinion, and neither does my daughter or their son-in-law, and I'm sure their children when they get older won't give a fuck either.
It won't just be one asshole who challenges them. The problem I am pointing out is their 'identity' is ONLY through their friends and family. Not with a people.
example:
Imagine a random black guy, in a unknown well populated black neighborhood being attacked by just two lone redneck white b-holes... How long does the black get beaten, before the 'sense of racial community' sends out a dozen other black guys to help the one getting his teeth kicked in?
Now if your grandkids (all grown up) were more white than black, and they were getting their teeth kicked in, in this same neighborhood, how long do you think they would have to wait? would help even come?
Despite your answer or what you want to happen, the fact that their is a pause or question here, that does not happen with in among racially specific communities. The only way your g-kids get help is if someone has been indoctrinated with melting pot ideology. Otherwise it is far too easy to "just mind our own business."
Quote:People who use that argument aren't just assholes though. They're goddamn morons who lack the brain cells to do anything more than waste our oxygen.So... the rest of the world you mean? or is this more of the white guilt i was talking about in the other posts? Again, what if I weren't white? What if I were American Indian looking to preserve what's left of my culture? what if in order to do that i and other of my tribe feel a need to close ranks and expel all outside influences?
Are you saying American Indians who think this way are "moron assholes just taking up your oxygen??" If so what should 'we' do with them? Or again does your philosophy only apply to white people?
What if I were a black woman who does not agree with your white grandaughter 'stealing one of our good black men?' Is she then also an asshole moron who is just breathing up all your oxygen? If so What should be done with her and people like her?
In essence what is wrong with people of any given race (especially if they are in the minority) who want to preserve their heritage, if in fact it does not include those of different races?
What "you people" fail to understand when you melt down all the different flavors of ice cream into one big pot, you loose what make the ice cream desirable/good in the first place. It's individual flavor is gone, the consistency is gone, it becomes a completely different product, and while their is a market for 'ice cream soup' far more people will prefer/identify the original product warmed soup.
Again so we are clear I am that soup. I am the product of an interracial relationship, and I have seen absolutely everything I have said here in practice in the real world. what's more I make it a point to talk to interracial people, and for the most part we share this common problem. again not that we are not loved or not that we don't have friends. we simply can not identify with one group or the other unless we take on the traits of the one group over the other.