Transexuals

[Mister Agenda]

So it's political and shared experience. Got it, thank you.

Also it seems like all the heat on this "bathroom/birther" stuff is on the male side; similarly with the anti-gay issues. 

Does it just boil down to strait men being terrified of dicks that aren't their own?

flip the coin sport. You are potentially putting "mentally Ill" men in the lady's restroom. And you are putting a female potentially in a hostel male restroom.

How long before a mentally Ill female get 'raped' by some monster who want to help her figure out she is indeed a 'woman?'

Since it hasn't happened yet despite millions of opportunities for it to happen, it is certainly too rare to re-order society in order to guard against it. Have you considered the logistics of making sure that trans people don't use the bathroom they prefer? Maybe have school bathrooms that run on pass cards and handprints so only kids the school has determined the sex of can use the bathrooms assigned to them?