Ive lost all trust for my mom

[Alex K]

Ive kinda been raised to think to never call 911 unless you absolutely need to right this moment.

I understand. As I said, this here is a different country with a somewhat different insurance and medical system, but I have driven ambulances before and if a 9th grader had called in at the control room with heart pains, we would have taken the call as absolutely justified, been there in 15 minutes tops with a doctor, put you on a stretcher and hooked up the ECG where you would have gotten the first diagnosis, driven you to the next ER, where you would have gotten maybe an ultrasound or something or other (IANAD). You have misconceptions how severe the situation has to be to call in, but not just you, many people. I've seen people die in front of me who seemed ok moments before, this is no joke.