Monogamous or not.
June 5, 2016 at 10:14 pm
(This post was last modified: June 5, 2016 at 10:22 pm by paulpablo.)
Are you monogamous or not. Or is there some other way you would describe yourself.
To the extent that your sexual lifestyle is a choice how do you feel about your sexual lifestyle choices, pros and cons?
Also, aside from your sexual lifestyle now, has there been any drastic changes in your sexual lifestyle, for example were you once monogamous and then went a little wild, or were you wild and then decided to be monogamous?
I personally have been very wild sexually since the age of about 25. I really am considering going monogamous now at the age of 31 with the girl who gave birth to my daughter. She doesn't trust me enough to get into a relationship with me with good reasons because she knows about my sexual history. We both like each other a lot though and I really am thinking about clamping down, and not having relatively random sex anymore.
Right now I feel a bit like how I felt before I gave up smoking, drinking, drugs and so on. I know there's probably a good thing waiting for me at the end of this decision but I feel really nostalgic and a sense of missed out adventures when I look back at all the stuff I've done. But on the other hand I think not all the girls I've been out with have been that great, am I really missing out on much?
What do you do to stop temptation? Is this why normal men go out and watch football and drink? I've never been into all that so maybe that's what normal men use as a distraction from temptation.
I voted for not monogamous because it's safe to say even though I am leaning towards wanting to be monogamous I haven't taken real steps towards being that way yet. Although I do see myself going completely monogamous, I've given up smoking and drinking before fairly rapidly and I can see this going the same way, if I stick to it.
The benefits of remaining monogamous forever seem clear enough, you're better off financially pooling your resources with one partner, it's easier to raise a child. These are just the non emotional factors, I don't know how it feels emotionally to be monogamous for a very long period because it's not something I've done properly yet. I get worried that the attitude to sex with one another might get a bit jaded and boring.
To the extent that your sexual lifestyle is a choice how do you feel about your sexual lifestyle choices, pros and cons?
Also, aside from your sexual lifestyle now, has there been any drastic changes in your sexual lifestyle, for example were you once monogamous and then went a little wild, or were you wild and then decided to be monogamous?
I personally have been very wild sexually since the age of about 25. I really am considering going monogamous now at the age of 31 with the girl who gave birth to my daughter. She doesn't trust me enough to get into a relationship with me with good reasons because she knows about my sexual history. We both like each other a lot though and I really am thinking about clamping down, and not having relatively random sex anymore.
Right now I feel a bit like how I felt before I gave up smoking, drinking, drugs and so on. I know there's probably a good thing waiting for me at the end of this decision but I feel really nostalgic and a sense of missed out adventures when I look back at all the stuff I've done. But on the other hand I think not all the girls I've been out with have been that great, am I really missing out on much?
What do you do to stop temptation? Is this why normal men go out and watch football and drink? I've never been into all that so maybe that's what normal men use as a distraction from temptation.
I voted for not monogamous because it's safe to say even though I am leaning towards wanting to be monogamous I haven't taken real steps towards being that way yet. Although I do see myself going completely monogamous, I've given up smoking and drinking before fairly rapidly and I can see this going the same way, if I stick to it.
The benefits of remaining monogamous forever seem clear enough, you're better off financially pooling your resources with one partner, it's easier to raise a child. These are just the non emotional factors, I don't know how it feels emotionally to be monogamous for a very long period because it's not something I've done properly yet. I get worried that the attitude to sex with one another might get a bit jaded and boring.
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