Take some fucking responsibility!

[Wyrd of Gawd]

It's that kind of attitude that allows a small gang of outlaws to take over a whole town.  The townspeople are too frightened to ambush them.  Once people discover that they can run over you without any consequences to themselves why would they ever stop?  If you are worried about surviving you can survive in prison.  

No gold stars for willing victims.

This post answers a lot of questions I've had about you. I get it now. You live in the wild wild west.

WTF?

Human nature is constant where ever you live.  Ordinary people who know better will willingly allow themselves to be abused because they like to be dominated.  You see it all the time in political discussions when people complain about a weak Governor or a weak President.  

Now imagine a woman who has endured abuse in her relationships for a long time.  She finally starts a new one with a guy who is considerate and kind.  But she's unhappy with him because he doesn't boss her around like the other guys did.  I'm sure that you know people who have relationships like that.