(June 11, 2016 at 11:56 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Well then go ahead. Think I'm a horrible person then. Think I'm a horrible mother. Because if it is a boy my husband and I have decided already.
And the abortion argument is much stronger the other way around. It's ok to dismember, poison, or suction apart an unborn baby until he/she dies, but horribly evil to cut a little piece of skin off, which I would say most circumcised men are glad for, including his own father. Nonetheless, I would never say any of you are bad people for being ok with abortion, as awful as I think abortion is. I choose not to judge. And if you're my friend and I find out you're for it, that does not change my opinion of you.
You guys are a judgmental group of folks.
I'm done here.
You are willing to go far and beyond reasonable to avoid a mother from aborting a baby, yet you are willing to make decisions for a baby based on aestetics and cultural trends? Do you fucking think or are you just afraid of using your brains to say something different your husband thinks? I actually love my wife for her ability to disagree with me. That is why I love her.
And YOU ARE MAKING A DECISION FOR AN UNBORN HUMAN. Judging are you not?
If you and your husband have decided, what is the point of this thread then? You expected everyone to agree with you? Try some jewish forums. They will agree with you 100%.