(July 1, 2016 at 11:45 am)wallym Wrote:(July 1, 2016 at 12:13 am)Bella Morte Wrote: When I die, I don't want anyone to be sad at my funeral. I hope everyone goes straight to the bar, gets smashed and has the time of their fucking lives. Now that would be the best way to honour my memory.
This is close to the point. When you die, you won't care if anyone is sad at funeral. You'll be dead. But while you're alive, you do care.
You care about something you know won't matter when it comes.
There's something paradoxical about it, no?
Well I want them to have a good life whether I'm there or not. Of course it cannot sadden me when I'm dead, but while I'm alive, I very much value the well being of my loved ones, so I still want them to move on after my death even if I won't know about it at that point. It's not all about me.