RE: Orgasms and Pain Control
May 15, 2011 at 9:09 am
(This post was last modified: May 15, 2011 at 9:16 am by Eudaimonia.)
(May 15, 2011 at 12:05 am)Aerzia Saerules Arktuos Wrote: Inb4starwars-sex
Depends... is this 'lovemaking' as part of a relationship between friends or a with a random person that one does not intend to see again? The former is necessarily a culmination of former "efforts" (just call it a relationship (and it can expand beyond there))... the other is an isolated act usually intended for either fun or money (or both).
Actually both.. with the presumption that the former is the goal.. and the latter are steps towards the goal.. Tantra was part of a religious doctrine.. While I dismissed the dogma during my readings.. I embraced what I felt were pretty good principles.. at least in theory..
There was a heirarchy of relating.. the height of which was a union that utilized sex as a way to seal/forge the bond psychologically... in the best way possible.. Sex was a tool of energy you might say.. Like how some people go through trials together.. the experience is so intense it is bonding.. In my understanding sex was a positive tool to bond as well as to buttress focus on continuous goals...
Quote:An orgasm is not necessarily the end point of a sexual encounter (but a fine place to stop), but it is necessarily the result of previous activities required to result in it
You.. uh.. get no argument from me there.. :-)
