(May 15, 2011 at 4:51 pm)Eudaimonia Wrote: The psychological bond I refer to is an empathetic one. Since you do not believe that sex seals a psychological bond to some degree.. then I will concede that my viewpoint is specific to being stereotypically female.. wherein I assume that others are capable of empathy and outside of this those who are able to experience intimacy without empathy are unnerving as it too closely resembles the criminal mind's inability to experience it...
Such is my bias...
Haha... because my sisters are empathetically bonded with those they have had sex with? Funny, that's what you are.
I'm plenty empathetic... I'm also plenty as criminal as they come. I'm also plenty insane as that happens. I don't have sex with strangers because they are strangers... I don't have sex with enemies for that they are... I have less sex than I would like with those I do like. I also can completely detatch myself from my emotions, which is something I don't do during sex.
So rest assured that with those I do have sex with: I am bonded with empathetically
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day
